ASKING FOR A FRIEND

Submit your question by starting your inquiry with "Hey, asking for a friend..."

Yes, it can be on any topic, including but not limited to:

• shit that really grinds your gears

• business or work woes

• relationship drama (with a family member, friend, lover, colleague, etc.)

• bad habits

• something you're "so done" with

• someone who lost your trust

• how to handle a situation or confrontation

Seriously, anything.

Get a third-party perspective — with the bullshit aside

PLEASE NOTE: Your letter may appear in a future edition of the @unlearnthebs advice column. DON'T WORRY; IT'S ANONYMOUS*. Submission doesn't guarantee a response or feature on @unlearnthebs

*if you feel uncomfortable with your letter being featured after filling out this form, please reach out to: tawny [at] lifewithtawny [dot] com

FAQs

My name is Tawny Ann De La Peña, and I promise I’m not some random bitch off the street. Seriously, feel free to Google my government name. I happen to be a life coach who helps people unlearn the bullshit that clouds their best judgment in life and work. I’m also an award-winning copywriter, so at the very least, you know the advice you read/hear/see will be entertaining.

WHO'S GIVING THE ADVICE?

WHY WAS THIS ADVICE COLUMN CREATED?

I’ve always loved Dear Abby since I was a child; launching my own advice column was inevitable. And, it’s something so many of my clients have asked me to do. So here I am, trying to help a bad bitch like you out just ‘cuz. Feel free to take my advice or leave it. Either way, my intentions are to just provide a third-party perspective that hopefully helps you show up differently — whether you submit an inquiry for advice or are just reading the responses.

WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH MY EMAIL?

I genuinely want this to be a pure experience. So you can rest assured knowing that I will never enter your email into any marketing software, ever. I plan to send these as a mail merge through Gmail. So this will be v grassroots / old-school / classic…you name it.

HOW CAN I VIEW THE RESPONSES TO ADVICE INQUIRIES?

I’ll be posting responses to @unlearnthebs on Instagram and Youtube. Anyone who signs up for email through this landing page WILL NEVER get any emails from me other than the one I’ll send with my responses to advice inquiries. So stay tuned on those social platforms.